3rd F Word of the Month For March: Ownership

  • QIC: Cornerstone
  • When: 03/01/2026
  • Posted In: 3rd f

Spiritual View

Ownership is stewardship. God entrusts each man with influence, responsibilities, and choices—and He calls us to be accountable for how we handle them. Taking ownership doesn’t mean perfection; it means humility, repentance when we miss the mark, and a willingness to course-correct. Real growth happens when we stop deflecting and start owning our obedience, our failures, and our next step forward.

Non-Religious View

Ownership is leadership currency. Strong men don’t blame circumstances, teammates, or timing—they adapt, respond, and take responsibility for outcomes. This month is about standing in your lane, doing the work, and owning both the results and the lessons. When a man owns his role fully, trust grows, excuses shrink, and momentum follows.

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Christmas Eve 2025



 

 

 

 

Christmas Eve Convergence

Santa has to stay fit enough to travel the world tonight. Let’s GO!!

Details
Location: “Ring of Fire”
Timeline:
0600 – Pre-run 5k (trail and road options)
0630 – Bootcamp
0715 – Message and Coffeteria
0745 – Close

Dark Helmet F3 Nation Nant’an on Q

Deez DOAH Notes:
I don’t get serious very often—pretty much ever—but this convergence has been heavy on my heart as Nant’an of F3 Nation. You usually just see me as the jackwagon you work out with, but this one’s different.

It would mean a lot if you showed up. Bring a guy—FNG or Kotter. We’re going to talk honestly about the state of manliness in our world and what we need to do to accelerate our impact.

Coffeeteria afterward provided by Poppins

A note from Santa traveling in his Time Machine:
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3rd F – December Theme: Purpose

  • QIC: Cornerstone
  • When: 12/01/2025
  • Posted In: 3rd f

Spiritual View:
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to
harm you, plans to give you a future and a hope.” – Jeremiah 29:11

Purpose isn’t something we create—it’s something we receive. God’s plan for your life isn’t
random; it’s intentional. In a world that pushes distractions and temporary rewards, living
with eternal focus means keeping our eyes on what truly matters.

Your purpose may not always feel clear—but God’s presence is. Every act of service, every
relationship, every trial—He uses it. This month, slow down, seek Him, and step boldly into
the purpose He’s written just for you.

Non-Religious View:
Purpose is the fuel that drives impact. It’s what gets you out of bed when motivation is gone.
It’s the clarity behind your choices, the grit behind your discipline, and the compass that
keeps you grounded when life gets chaotic.
In F3, we talk a lot about living with intentionality. Why? Because without purpose, we drift.
But when you define your “why,” you start leading differently—in your family, your work,
your workouts, and your community.

You don’t need a religious belief to live with purpose. You just need to stop going through
the motions and start showing up with meaning. This December, finish the year focused.
Lock in on who you’re becoming and why it matters.

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3rd F – November theme: Generosity

  • QIC: Cornerstone
  • When: 11/01/2025
  • Posted In: 3rd f

Spiritual View:
“Freely you have received; freely give.” – Matthew 10:8
Generosity isn’t just something we do—it’s who we’re called to be. Jesus sent out His
disciples with this reminder: everything we have—grace, love, forgiveness, time, resources— was first given to us. And our response? Give it away. Not out of obligation, but out of joy.
When we lead with generosity, we reflect the heart of God. It might mean giving your time to
a brother who’s struggling, sharing your talents to lift others up, or simply being present for
someone who needs you. Generosity opens doors. It softens hearts. And it leads to impact far
greater than we can measure.

Non-Religious View:
Generosity is leadership in action. It’s choosing to invest in others without expecting
something in return. And it’s not just about money—it’s about time, attention, energy, and
presence. The strongest communities are built by men who show up and give freely.
In F3, we believe impact isn’t measured by how much you accumulate, but by how much you
pour out. Generosity doesn’t weaken you—it multiplies your influence. It’s contagious. It
inspires. And it reminds us that we’re part of something bigger than ourselves.

So this month, whether it’s helping a brother move, mentoring someone, or serving your
community—lead with an open hand. That’s where real strength lives

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Thanksgiving Food Drive

Local food banks are facing increased demand in our community. The women of FiA have thrown out a challenge to the men of The Fort. Who can collect the most (by weight) from the Fort Mill Care Center’s list of November Wish List.

FM Care Center Nov Wish LIst

We are a big region and are also collecting turkeys for Operation Love the week of 11/16. The Fort is confident its men can rally and serve those in need.

All other items can be brought to any AO 11/10-11/24. The Site Qs will take items at ALL our AOs!! Encourage your neighborhoods to participate as well. The final weigh-in for competition will be 11/24. Let’s support those in need and enjoy a little competitive spirit with FiA.

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Operation Love Returns

This Thanksgiving Operation Love Returns to the Fort! Y’all might remember from a few years ago. He moved back to Wisconsin but his legacy lives on through Operation Love.

WHAT: The plan is to provide Thanksgiving dinner to under resourced families in and around the Fort Mill and surrounding areas. We are partnering with members of St. Paul’s Episcopal Church and Lifepointe Church to provide boxes on November 23rd.
These boxes will be filled with all the ingredients to make a thanksgiving dinner. It will be a mobile pickup on the 23rd at St. Paul’s Church 501 Pine St., Fort mill
What WE will be doing as the PAX of the Fort is collecting TURKEYS 8-10lb birds, goal will be 30! Suplex and YHC will be collecting them the week of 11/16 at various AOs throughout the week – Stay tuned for those details.

We will also ask for a couple volunteers in the afternoon of 11/23 from 2-5pm at St. Paul’s to assist with packing and distributing the boxes to the families. Signup genius for volunteering TBD

This will work in conjunction with a fundraiser through the Fort Mill Care Center and a friendly competition with FIA. Those details are being shared by Band Camp.

WHY: because thanksgiving is a meal no one should go without! And because we are HIM’s and this is what we do. WE GET TO
Contact or YHC (Poppins) for questions.

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3rd F – September Theme: Strength Through Steadfastness

  • QIC: Cornerstone
  • When: 09/01/2025
  • Posted In: 3rd f

Spiritual View:
“Let us not grow weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” – Galatians 6:9

Steadfastness is more than endurance—it’s faithfulness under pressure. It’s the quiet strength to stay the course when progress is slow and results are unseen. Galatians reminds us that God honors perseverance. Even when you’re tired, overlooked, or discouraged, your obedience matters. The fruit doesn’t always show right away, but the harvest is coming.

When the fire fades and the path feels uphill, it’s steadfastness that keeps us rooted. Spiritual maturity isn’t built in the highs—it’s forged in the middle, where you choose to keep doing good even when it’s tough. Stand firm. The mission is worth it.

Non-Religious View:
Steadfastness is the long game. It’s the resolve to keep showing up—when motivation is gone, when no one’s watching, and when the payoff isn’t immediate. In a world addicted to speed and instant results, steadfastness sets you apart. It says, “I’m in this for the long haul.”

Whether it’s building your career, showing up for your kids, investing in relationships, or becoming a stronger leader—progress takes time. Discipline might get you started, but steadfastness is what finishes the race.

In F3, we grind together. We sweat, we grow, and we remind each other that the mission is bigger than today’s discomfort. So if you’re feeling weary—good. That means you’re in the fight. Don’t quit now.

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🔥 Preblast: Invergence 2025 🔥

  • QIC: Cornerstone
  • When: 09/13/2025
  • Posted In: 2nd f, 3rd f

Mark your calendars, men! Saturday, September 13th | 5–9ish PM |420 Horton Grove Rd, Fort Mill, SC, 29715

This is more than just another event — it’s a region-wide convergence of the PAX. We’ll come together for fellowship, testimonies, and leadership spotlights, while also highlighting new service opportunities and the impact F3 The Fort is making in the community.

Save the date now — you don’t want to miss this powerful night of connection and brotherhood.

Sign up: https://www.signupgenius.com/go/4090E4AADA923A4F94-58194337-invergence#/

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3rd-F August Theme: Discipline — Training the Body, Shaping the Soul

  • QIC: Cornerstone
  • When: 08/01/2025
  • Posted In: 3rd f

August: Discipline 🛡️

Spiritual View:
Faith isn’t a one-time declaration—it’s a daily discipline. Scripture reminds us over and over that a strong walk with God is built through intentional practice: prayer, time in the Word, fellowship, worship, and obedience. These are spiritual reps. They form the habits that keep us aligned, even when life feels chaotic.

Discipline is what sustains us when the feelings fade. It’s what anchors us when distractions press in. As Paul says in 1 Corinthians 9:27, “I discipline my body like an athlete, training it to do what it should.” Spiritual growth doesn’t happen by accident—it happens by commitment, consistency, and grit.

Non-Religious View:
Discipline is the backbone of personal growth. It’s the decision to do the hard things, day after day, even when motivation runs dry. Whether it’s getting up for a 5:15 workout, choosing the harder right over the easier wrong, or being present for your family—discipline shapes the man you become.

It’s not about perfection. It’s about progress. About showing up when it’s inconvenient. About keeping promises to yourself and the people around you. In F3, we believe discipline isn’t a burden—it’s a freedom. Because when you train yourself to stay locked in, you become a man who can be counted on.

So this month, wherever you’re coming from—faith-driven or not—lean into the grind. Build habits that sharpen your mind, body, and purpose. That’s the kind of discipline that makes impact inevitable.

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Forged Fathers

Forged Fathers: An Invitation to Connect and Grow

A Special Invitation for Fathers of Children with Special Needs

Are you a father navigating the unique, rewarding, and sometimes challenging journey of raising a child with special needs? If so, consider this your personal invitation to join a transformative new group, “Forged Fathers”.  This group is designed to create a welcoming space where fathers can connect, share experiences, and find support amongst others who truly understand their path.

About Forged Fathers

Forged Fathers is more than just a group; it’s a brotherhood. The mission is simple yet powerful: to bring together fathers who share the bond of raising children with special needs, offering them an opportunity to connect, learn from one another, and grow stronger through shared experiences. Life’s challenges can feel lighter when carried as a community, and what better way to build that community than by coming together around the warmth and camaraderie of a bonfire?

Event Details

We’re thrilled to announce our first gathering, and we’d love for you to be a part of it:

– **Date**: Thursday, October 2nd

– **Time**: 7:00 PM

– **Location**: 2001 Driftwood Circle, Fort Mill, SC

This special evening will be centered around fellowship, conversation, and connection. The glow of the bonfire will provide the perfect setting to meet other fathers, share stories, and build meaningful bonds.

Why Join Us?

Raising a child with special needs is a journey filled with moments of joy, triumph, and resilience, but also moments of challenge. Forged Fathers offers a unique space to:

  • **Connect**: Meet other fathers who understand the highs and lows of your journey.
  • **Fellowship**: Share your experiences in a relaxed, judgment-free environment.
  • **Recharge**: Take a moment for yourself to reflect, laugh, and gain new perspectives.
  • **Grow**: Be inspired by the strength, wisdom, and stories of others walking a similar path.

What to Expect

This is a casual and welcoming gathering. No formal agenda, no pressure—just an evening dedicated to meaningful conversations, laughter, and the comforting presence of a community that truly gets it. Whether you’re looking to share your story, listen to others, or simply enjoy the company, Forged Fathers is the perfect place to start.

How to Join Us

No RSVP is necessary—just come as you are, ready to relax and connect. We understand the complexities of life and family schedules, so feel free to arrive as it suits you best. Bring a chair, an open heart, and, if you’d like, a friend who might benefit from this circle of fellowship.

Spread the Word

Know someone who might find value in this group? Please share this invitation. The more fathers we bring together, the stronger our community becomes. Together, we are forged by fire, united in purpose, and strengthened by the bonds we share.

We Look Forward to Seeing You There!

Mark your calendar for October 2nd at 7:00 PM. Let’s gather around the fire, celebrate the role of fatherhood, and build a community of understanding and support. At Forged Fathers, you’re not alone—let’s walk this journey together.

For any questions or additional details, feel free to contact us. We can’t wait to welcome you to our first gathering!

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