Thanksgiving Food Drive

Local food banks are facing increased demand in our community. The women of FiA have thrown out a challenge to the men of The Fort. Who can collect the most (by weight) from the Fort Mill Care Center’s list of November Wish List.

FM Care Center Nov Wish LIst

We are a big region and are also collecting turkeys for Operation Love the week of 11/16. The Fort is confident its men can rally and serve those in need.

All other items can be brought to any AO 11/10-11/24. The Site Qs will take items at ALL our AOs!! Encourage your neighborhoods to participate as well. The final weigh-in for competition will be 11/24. Let’s support those in need and enjoy a little competitive spirit with FiA.

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Operation Love Returns

This Thanksgiving Operation Love Returns to the Fort! Y’all might remember from a few years ago. He moved back to Wisconsin but his legacy lives on through Operation Love.

WHAT: The plan is to provide Thanksgiving dinner to under resourced families in and around the Fort Mill and surrounding areas. We are partnering with members of St. Paul’s Episcopal Church and Lifepointe Church to provide boxes on November 23rd.
These boxes will be filled with all the ingredients to make a thanksgiving dinner. It will be a mobile pickup on the 23rd at St. Paul’s Church 501 Pine St., Fort mill
What WE will be doing as the PAX of the Fort is collecting TURKEYS 8-10lb birds, goal will be 30! Suplex and YHC will be collecting them the week of 11/16 at various AOs throughout the week – Stay tuned for those details.

We will also ask for a couple volunteers in the afternoon of 11/23 from 2-5pm at St. Paul’s to assist with packing and distributing the boxes to the families. Signup genius for volunteering TBD

This will work in conjunction with a fundraiser through the Fort Mill Care Center and a friendly competition with FIA. Those details are being shared by Band Camp.

WHY: because thanksgiving is a meal no one should go without! And because we are HIM’s and this is what we do. WE GET TO
Contact or YHC (Poppins) for questions.

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3rd F – September Theme: Strength Through Steadfastness

  • QIC: Cornerstone
  • When: 09/01/2025
  • Posted In: 3rd f

Spiritual View:
“Let us not grow weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” – Galatians 6:9

Steadfastness is more than endurance—it’s faithfulness under pressure. It’s the quiet strength to stay the course when progress is slow and results are unseen. Galatians reminds us that God honors perseverance. Even when you’re tired, overlooked, or discouraged, your obedience matters. The fruit doesn’t always show right away, but the harvest is coming.

When the fire fades and the path feels uphill, it’s steadfastness that keeps us rooted. Spiritual maturity isn’t built in the highs—it’s forged in the middle, where you choose to keep doing good even when it’s tough. Stand firm. The mission is worth it.

Non-Religious View:
Steadfastness is the long game. It’s the resolve to keep showing up—when motivation is gone, when no one’s watching, and when the payoff isn’t immediate. In a world addicted to speed and instant results, steadfastness sets you apart. It says, “I’m in this for the long haul.”

Whether it’s building your career, showing up for your kids, investing in relationships, or becoming a stronger leader—progress takes time. Discipline might get you started, but steadfastness is what finishes the race.

In F3, we grind together. We sweat, we grow, and we remind each other that the mission is bigger than today’s discomfort. So if you’re feeling weary—good. That means you’re in the fight. Don’t quit now.

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🔥 Preblast: Invergence 2025 🔥

  • QIC: Cornerstone
  • When: 09/13/2025
  • Posted In: 2nd f, 3rd f

Mark your calendars, men! Saturday, September 13th | 5–9ish PM |420 Horton Grove Rd, Fort Mill, SC, 29715

This is more than just another event — it’s a region-wide convergence of the PAX. We’ll come together for fellowship, testimonies, and leadership spotlights, while also highlighting new service opportunities and the impact F3 The Fort is making in the community.

Save the date now — you don’t want to miss this powerful night of connection and brotherhood.

Sign up: https://www.signupgenius.com/go/4090E4AADA923A4F94-58194337-invergence#/

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3rd-F August Theme: Discipline — Training the Body, Shaping the Soul

  • QIC: Cornerstone
  • When: 08/01/2025
  • Posted In: 3rd f

August: Discipline 🛡️

Spiritual View:
Faith isn’t a one-time declaration—it’s a daily discipline. Scripture reminds us over and over that a strong walk with God is built through intentional practice: prayer, time in the Word, fellowship, worship, and obedience. These are spiritual reps. They form the habits that keep us aligned, even when life feels chaotic.

Discipline is what sustains us when the feelings fade. It’s what anchors us when distractions press in. As Paul says in 1 Corinthians 9:27, “I discipline my body like an athlete, training it to do what it should.” Spiritual growth doesn’t happen by accident—it happens by commitment, consistency, and grit.

Non-Religious View:
Discipline is the backbone of personal growth. It’s the decision to do the hard things, day after day, even when motivation runs dry. Whether it’s getting up for a 5:15 workout, choosing the harder right over the easier wrong, or being present for your family—discipline shapes the man you become.

It’s not about perfection. It’s about progress. About showing up when it’s inconvenient. About keeping promises to yourself and the people around you. In F3, we believe discipline isn’t a burden—it’s a freedom. Because when you train yourself to stay locked in, you become a man who can be counted on.

So this month, wherever you’re coming from—faith-driven or not—lean into the grind. Build habits that sharpen your mind, body, and purpose. That’s the kind of discipline that makes impact inevitable.

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Forged Fathers

Forged Fathers: An Invitation to Connect and Grow

A Special Invitation for Fathers of Children with Special Needs

Are you a father navigating the unique, rewarding, and sometimes challenging journey of raising a child with special needs? If so, consider this your personal invitation to join a transformative new group, “Forged Fathers”.  This group is designed to create a welcoming space where fathers can connect, share experiences, and find support amongst others who truly understand their path.

About Forged Fathers

Forged Fathers is more than just a group; it’s a brotherhood. The mission is simple yet powerful: to bring together fathers who share the bond of raising children with special needs, offering them an opportunity to connect, learn from one another, and grow stronger through shared experiences. Life’s challenges can feel lighter when carried as a community, and what better way to build that community than by coming together around the warmth and camaraderie of a bonfire?

Event Details

We’re thrilled to announce our first gathering, and we’d love for you to be a part of it:

– **Date**: Thursday, October 2nd

– **Time**: 7:00 PM

– **Location**: 2001 Driftwood Circle, Fort Mill, SC

This special evening will be centered around fellowship, conversation, and connection. The glow of the bonfire will provide the perfect setting to meet other fathers, share stories, and build meaningful bonds.

Why Join Us?

Raising a child with special needs is a journey filled with moments of joy, triumph, and resilience, but also moments of challenge. Forged Fathers offers a unique space to:

  • **Connect**: Meet other fathers who understand the highs and lows of your journey.
  • **Fellowship**: Share your experiences in a relaxed, judgment-free environment.
  • **Recharge**: Take a moment for yourself to reflect, laugh, and gain new perspectives.
  • **Grow**: Be inspired by the strength, wisdom, and stories of others walking a similar path.

What to Expect

This is a casual and welcoming gathering. No formal agenda, no pressure—just an evening dedicated to meaningful conversations, laughter, and the comforting presence of a community that truly gets it. Whether you’re looking to share your story, listen to others, or simply enjoy the company, Forged Fathers is the perfect place to start.

How to Join Us

No RSVP is necessary—just come as you are, ready to relax and connect. We understand the complexities of life and family schedules, so feel free to arrive as it suits you best. Bring a chair, an open heart, and, if you’d like, a friend who might benefit from this circle of fellowship.

Spread the Word

Know someone who might find value in this group? Please share this invitation. The more fathers we bring together, the stronger our community becomes. Together, we are forged by fire, united in purpose, and strengthened by the bonds we share.

We Look Forward to Seeing You There!

Mark your calendar for October 2nd at 7:00 PM. Let’s gather around the fire, celebrate the role of fatherhood, and build a community of understanding and support. At Forged Fathers, you’re not alone—let’s walk this journey together.

For any questions or additional details, feel free to contact us. We can’t wait to welcome you to our first gathering!

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“From Burpees to Bytes: An Intro to AI Workshop” Skynet Isn’t Coming, But You Should Be

Men of The Fort,

Double down on leadership Friday, May 16th, with fitness for the body and fuel for the mind.

 

🕔 5:15 AM – Boot Camp Beatdown

Kick off your day with a pre-dawn workout, reinforcing that strength begins with discipline.

🕕 6:15 AM – 3rd F Session: Intro to AI Workshop (Beginner-Friendly)

Led by Old Bay (Tom Metz) and Cornerstone (Jeremy Holt)

📍 St. John’s United Methodist Church | 130 Tom Hall St, Fort Mill, SC 29715

 

Workshop Topic: Artificial Intelligence – Artificial Intelligence – Practical Uses for Everyday Use

This introductory, hands-on session covers:

  • Intro to AI: Understanding what AI is (and isn’t)
  • Practical, Everyday Uses: How AI can streamline your daily tasks
  • Security Considerations: Keeping your data safe (work and personal)
  • Getting Started: Setting up your ChatGPT account
  • Effective Prompting: Strategies for clear communication with AI
  • Real-life Applications: Enhancing productivity at home and work

 

Bring your laptop or tablet—we’ll be learning by doing.

This isn’t just tech talk. It’s about equipping men to lead effectively in an increasingly digital world.

#FaithInTheFuture #AIForImpact #F3TheFort #BuiltToLead

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F3 AMRAP 4 Autism 2025!

B.L.U.F.

Saturday April 26th there will be a #BEATDOWN of epic proportions (AMRAP style) at Alcatraz.  This #SNOTWOGGLER is being delivered to support families with autism (like mine) get the resources they need.  The average cost for ABA therapy is $60,000 per year and can be much higher depending on the severity and need.  Autism Strong Foundation is a local non-profit that is “Founded on faith and led by inclusion, our mission is to provide the strongest support, community and hope for those touched by autism. All funds raised by Autism Strong are mindfully donated to our community in the way that will make the greatest impact; connecting families and children to the resources they desperately need.” Give HERE if you feel so lead.

THE WHY:

“For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord…” Jeremiah 29:11

My son Noah was diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder in June of 2021.  The verse from Jeremiah is a truth that my M and I have hung on to ever since that day.  Admittedly there have been many days where we have doubted, more than I’d like to admit, as we’ve worked to learn and navigate this new world we were thrusted in to.  One of the most impactful things we have been able to do for Noah is getting him ABA therapy.  Through this focused therapy model, we have seen Noah grow in so many areas.  Today we are still in ABA as well as Speech, Occupational and Equine therapy but since we started Noah has become more expressive of his needs/wants, increased in his social skills, increased in his daily living skills and we can clearly see his confidence has grown.  We want all people affected with autism to have this same opportunity.

Through our journey we have found an amazing community and organization with a local nonprofit called Autism Strong Foundation.  The foundation was started to help families that cannot afford to help their children get the care they need for autism.  My M and I know firsthand, after battling with insurance for coverage, how difficult it can be to carry this burden on top of everything else.  We know many families are losing that fight or just cannot afford to help their children with the extremely high cost of therapy.  Some families must make a choice between paying the power bill or therapy for their special needs child, could you imagine that decision?

THE WHAT

F3 AMRAP 4 AUTISM is taking over Alcatraz on Saturday April 26.

  • 0630 launch with brief warmup and explanation of the day’s event
  • 0645 Event Start. AMRAP below workout for 36 minutes with coupon
    • 54 man makers with block
    • 54 Frog Squats
    • 54 yard dairy carry (2 blocks)
    • 54 bent over rows
    • 54 BBS with block
  • 0721 Clock Stops
  • 0730 COT & Winners Announced
  • 0745 Coffeteria

  Other Details

  • Workout is open to ALL MEN – regardless of if you donate. #CorePrinciple and all…
  • We will be gathering as many coupons as we can. If you have a sandbag, kettlebell or cinderblock please bring it.  Recommend no more than 50 lbs.
  • AMRAP 4 AUTISM is an annual event started by Autism Strong Foundation in 2013. This year’s event will be in August and held in Charlotte.  YHC will share registration details as they come available.

How you can help

  • You can donate with your credit card by visiting the website linked below:
  • WEBSITE(https://secure.givelively.org/donate/autism-strong-foundation/f3-x-amrap-4-autism-2025)

 

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3rd F Monthly Theme – May: Humility, Power in Letting Go

  • QIC: Cornerstone
  • When: 05/01/2025
  • Posted In: 3rd f

He must become greater; I must become less.” – John 3:30

Humility is the starting line of leadership.

In John 3:30, John the Baptist gives us one of the most powerful declarations of purpose and position: “He must increase, but I must decrease.” In a world where everything tells us to climb higher, talk louder, and take credit, this verse calls us to something radically different—less of me, more of Him.

Humility doesn’t mean weakness. It’s not thinking less of yourself; it’s thinking of yourself less. It’s recognizing that strength doesn’t come from status but from service. In the Kingdom, the greatest leaders are the greatest servants.

In our families, workplaces, and communities, we’re called to lead with quiet strength—not for recognition, but for the good of others. When a man leads with humility, people around him thrive. His words carry weight because they’re backed by character, not ego.

In the Gloom, we sharpen one another not to be better than the man next to us, but to make all of us better. That requires humility—the willingness to be held accountable, to admit when we’re wrong, and to lift others above ourselves.

Not religious? No problem.
F3 welcomes men from all backgrounds. Humility is something every leader can practice, regardless of belief. It’s about putting others first, owning your actions, and showing up with integrity.

This May, let’s be men who lead from low ground. Let’s model the kind of strength that doesn’t need to be seen—just felt. Let Him increase. Let us decrease.

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3rd F Monthly Theme – April: Service 🤲

  • QIC: Cornerstone
  • When: 04/01/2025
  • Posted In: 3rd f

“Faith without works is dead.” – James 2:17

This month, we turn our attention to Service — the outward evidence of an inward conviction.

You can talk about what you believe. You can post quotes, wear wristbands, and read devotionals. But unless you’re moving toward others with purpose, it’s just noise. Scripture is clear: faith without action is lifeless.

What does Service look like in F3?

It’s men who show up early and stay late.
It’s Shield Locks taking responsibility for the needs of others.
It’s PAX stepping into discomfort, filling gaps no one else wants to touch.

Whether you’re picking up trash along the highway, feeding those who don’t know where their next meal is coming from, or leading your 2.0s by example — Service is leadership in motion.

“Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant.” – Matthew 20:26

Not a Christian? No problem.

You don’t have to believe in Jesus to believe in sacrifice. The principle is universal: when you serve others, you step into something greater than yourself. Service builds character, deepens relationships, and transforms communities. It’s not about religion. It’s about responsibility.

The Challenge for April:

  • Look around. Identify a need.

  • Step in before you’re asked.

  • Bring someone with you.

  • Do it again next week.

Let this be the month we stop talking about impact and start making it. We don’t need more spectators. We need servants who lead.

Let’s be the hands and feet — faithfully, boldly, and without hesitation.

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