He must become greater; I must become less.” – John 3:30

Humility is the starting line of leadership.

In John 3:30, John the Baptist gives us one of the most powerful declarations of purpose and position: “He must increase, but I must decrease.” In a world where everything tells us to climb higher, talk louder, and take credit, this verse calls us to something radically different—less of me, more of Him.

Humility doesn’t mean weakness. It’s not thinking less of yourself; it’s thinking of yourself less. It’s recognizing that strength doesn’t come from status but from service. In the Kingdom, the greatest leaders are the greatest servants.

In our families, workplaces, and communities, we’re called to lead with quiet strength—not for recognition, but for the good of others. When a man leads with humility, people around him thrive. His words carry weight because they’re backed by character, not ego.

In the Gloom, we sharpen one another not to be better than the man next to us, but to make all of us better. That requires humility—the willingness to be held accountable, to admit when we’re wrong, and to lift others above ourselves.

Not religious? No problem.
F3 welcomes men from all backgrounds. Humility is something every leader can practice, regardless of belief. It’s about putting others first, owning your actions, and showing up with integrity.

This May, let’s be men who lead from low ground. Let’s model the kind of strength that doesn’t need to be seen—just felt. Let Him increase. Let us decrease.

“Faith without works is dead.” – James 2:17

This month, we turn our attention to Service — the outward evidence of an inward conviction.

You can talk about what you believe. You can post quotes, wear wristbands, and read devotionals. But unless you’re moving toward others with purpose, it’s just noise. Scripture is clear: faith without action is lifeless.

What does Service look like in F3?

It’s men who show up early and stay late.
It’s Shield Locks taking responsibility for the needs of others.
It’s PAX stepping into discomfort, filling gaps no one else wants to touch.

Whether you’re picking up trash along the highway, feeding those who don’t know where their next meal is coming from, or leading your 2.0s by example — Service is leadership in motion.

“Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant.” – Matthew 20:26

Not a Christian? No problem.

You don’t have to believe in Jesus to believe in sacrifice. The principle is universal: when you serve others, you step into something greater than yourself. Service builds character, deepens relationships, and transforms communities. It’s not about religion. It’s about responsibility.

The Challenge for April:

• Look around. Identify a need.

• Step in before you’re asked.

• Bring someone with you.

• Do it again next week.

Let this be the month we stop talking about impact and start making it. We don’t need more spectators. We need servants who lead.

Let’s be the hands and feet — faithfully, boldly, and without hesitation.